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Question ID  1620  -  Family issues
Dear Sayyid, I married a momina girl without taking any dowry and I am on a very good post.I am Indian. I was getting very large amount of money in dowry from many different people who were rich and willing to marry their daughters to me. My parents were also desperate to marry me with any such girl who is having a rich father. But I married a girl from educated sayyid family who is middle class and my wife is well educated and prays 5 times a day and fasts in ramazan. I am happy with my wife and now in last 6 years of my marriage , I got 2 sons also. My parents still mentally torture me on differnt occasions and scolds me that I ruined and destroyed their plans and we could have become rich by taking dowry or by marrying a girl of some influential person's daughter. I feel very bad and sometimes I quarrel with them and feels very bad as I know that its a great sin to say anything to your old parents. But I am unable to control my anger at times and say some bad words to them. I dont know , what should I do? Please advice me, I married with my wife against the will of my parents and they were not there at the time of my marriage. Should I divorce my wife? what do you Advice to my parents? Thanks.
 
Answer:-  Do not divorce your wife , and do not hurt her feelings.
You must tolerate your parents even if they do injustice to you. Never
speak any word which can hurt them. Always be very polite when you talk to
them or respond to their wrong opinion. Allah will never bechappybwith any
one who hurts his parents feelings.
Keep balance between your parents and your wife and maintain justice when
dealing with both sides, but be very polite with your parents, even when
they are wrong.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi

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Question ID  1440  -  Family issues
salam alaikum, , is it wajib for wife to obey legal requests from husband? if she is not listening what maximum action husband can take? also same question for children 2.is it wajib to do umra every month? 3.if we have not done umra in any month and still want to go to makkah for only tawaf , is this ok, or first we have to do umrah for that month? thanks abid
 
Answer:-  > Q1.is it wajib for wife to obey legal requests from husband? if she is not
> listening what maximum action husband can take?
> A1. Wife must obey her husband when he asks for his rights as a husband.
> Denying husband's rights is a sinful act and it will have very bad results
> in this life and hereafter on the wife who denyed her husband's rights.
> Husband should advise her to obey, then if she insists on denying his
> rights, he can turn his face from her while sleeping. He can ask a person
> from her family who might have an effect on her to talk to her.
> Q 2.is it wajib to do umra every month?

A2. Not obligatory to perform Umra but only if you want to enter Makkah .

> Q3.if we have not done umra in any month and still want to go to makkah
> for only tawaf , is this ok, or first we have to do umrah for that month?

A3. You can not enter Makkah with out Umra in that month. After Umra you
can do Tawaf or enter Makkah with out Umra for that month.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi

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Question ID  1412  -  Family issues
Salaamunalikum..please help us as we are facing very tough period because my mother and father are both ill from last 1 month...please give us dua so we can recite and ask Allah for their shifa
 
Answer:-  وإذا مرِضتُ فَهوَ يَشفين
WA ITHA MARIZTU FAHOW YASHFEEN
to be repeated as many times as possible.
Ayatul Kursi seven times and Sura alHamd forty times.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi
 
Question ID  1119  -  Family issues
Salaam Alaykum I am a follower of Ayatullah Sistanti and I have two questions to ask you please: 1)Can a pregnant women find out in her ultra sound scan what she is getting either boy or girl.Is this fine and allowed? 2) Also people say that when a baby is born and when the cord comes off the baby's belly button, then we should store the cord as it brings barkaat? Thank you. I look to your response
 
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> Q1)Can a pregnant women find out in her ultra sound scan what she is
> getting either boy or girl.Is this fine and allowed?
> A1) Tes it is allowed but no non Mahram is allowed to see any part of her
> body.
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> Q2) Also people say that when a baby is born and when the cord comes off
> the baby\'s belly button, then we should store the cord as it brings
> barkaat?
> A2. We do not have any evidence for such claim.

Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi
 
Question ID  1117  -  Family issues
Assalam Alikum, I write in regard to my 2 year old daughter. I have noticed a change in her behaviour and wish to recieve some guidance from yourself. Since her birth she has witnessed arguements etc and violent outbursts from her dad and most recently is having to witness the seperation of both parents. She is living with me (her mother) and sees her father when he wants to see her which isn't often, she misses her dad and often asks for him. She gets very upset when he dad leaves when dropping her back off to me. She has started private nursery and lashes out on me often as she doesn't want to come home, she starts to hit me and becomes very upset. Even at night she wakes up distressed alot. I recite Ayat Kursi on her and sometimes she calms down but sometimes not. I was wondering if there is anything you can suggest for me to recite on her to control her behaviour and also to help her deal with her parents separation. Jazak Allah
 
Answer:-  It might be very helpful to her if you and her dad reconcile and live
together, then she will not miss any of her parents. Try your best to live
together, at least for the sake of your baby.
You may ask again if you need any help.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi

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