Category: Marriage
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Question ID 4414 Thursday 27th of September 2018
Question:
Aslam o alikum Syed. Is it haram to have sexual thoughts about your husband. We have been separated for 9 years and not had any physical relationship. My mind starts to wonder sometimes with sexual scenarios and what it would be like. Am I committing sin by thinking like this about my husband, Wa salam.
Answer:
Wa Alaykum Assalam wr wb
Sexual thoughts about your husband is allowed. It becomes sinful if he is
no more your husband or if it is about another man.
Wassalam.
> Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 4408 Sunday 23rd of September 2018
Question:
Salaam alaikum Maulana Musawvi. Can Mutta be conducted after 12 days of Moharram? kindly please advise. Ahsant and jazzakallah khair inshallah-May allah swt reward you for answering questions from all.
Answer:
Wa Alaykum Assalam wr wb
Yes it is allowed to save yourself from Haraam, but Momin should avoid celebration during the Days of Aza.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 4404 Monday 17th of September 2018
Question:
Salams, I am in a difficult situation. I married my wife in January 18 under a standard nikkah agreement. There was no variation of the contract. It was an arranged marriage between families. She was given all her required marriage rights. I love my wife very much but she was always short tempered and often made threats to divorce me if I didn’t do as i was told. In May 18 she said she will divorce me if I went to see my parents for two days. I felt she was joking so I went to see my parents and asked if she wished to attend. She declined and stayed at her family home. She never returned home. She has now approached Several well known organisations in UK who all said she doesn’t have grounds for divorce as there hasn’t been any significant dispute to warrant divorce. I explained to all imams I seek only reconciliation and for a facility of a meeting with my wife. She continued to find an imam and now has located one. Without any discussions or meeting he sent me Khula papers twice now with false grounds for divorce being cited. I have requested a meeting with him but he refuses to co-operate. All Imams I have spoken to say he isn’t following any Shi’a doctrine on the laws of divorce. My rights as a husband are now 0% and my wife has 100% rights although the nikkah does not say this. 1) Can the imam she has paid change my status in the nikkah without my permission? 2) other Imams have said that if he grants divorce it will not be recognised as it does not comply with doctrine ane we remain husband and wife. The Imams have said she will commit adultry as her imam has told her she is divorced which is incorrect 3) my wife imam said that he follows Ayatollah Sistani decree. I cannot imagine the offices of The Great Ayatollah Sistani agreeing with divorce under this process especially when our issues are small in nature and I have sought nothing but reconciliation and are capable of being resolved. Can you please advise me of my position? Kind regard
Answer:
Wa Alaykum Assalam wr wb
1. No one can divorce or get Khula from you on your behalf with out real grounds on injustice done by you to your wife. Visiting your parents is not only your right but obligation and it can never be a grind for Khula.
2. If any one recited divorce or Khula in this case, it is invalid and it has no value at all. Such person is misusing religion for pleasing your wife or gaining worldly gains.
3. All the Shia lama including Ayatullah Sistani do not allow such Khula.
Assalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 4369 Thursday 23rd of August 2018
Question:
My daughter has involved in love with a sunni boy ,as we are Shia.We performed engagement with a Shia boy but She is not ready to for marriage as that Shia boy is very momin and muttaqi and has a great love towards ahlulbait.What is Islam ruling on this.
Answer:
If your daughter is already engaged to a Shia boy and she is in love with another person from different sect, you need to talk to her and convince and warn her about the bad sequences of such act.
In principle , Marriage is allowed between Muslims, but if the marriage can cause harm on true faith, then it will be not allowed. You can not force your daughter to marry a person when she is in love with another person, but you need to be very open and frank with her in order to make her understand the consequences.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musaw
Question ID 4332 Wednesday 6th of June 2018
Question:
Salam. So i have several questions. 1. I am a shia girl, I met someone who was shia and we did mutah. I was a virgin but he did not consider me a virgin because i had done oral/physical things with others before and my hymen was broken cause of that but never penetration or intercourse. Was it halal of him to not consider me a virgin and not ask my father before doing mutah and having intercourse with me? 2. He has had intercourse with many women before me all who were muslim, christian or jewish, over 20 and he said as a shia man he can do mutah as many times he wants purely for his sexual desires and does not need a waiting period to do so. Is this true? Can a man do mutah unlimited amount of times for purely his desires and not wait in between mutah? Is this his religious right? 3. Can a man do mutah with multiple girls at once?
Answer:
Wa Alaykum Assalam wr wb
1- You are still a Virgin girl because you did not marry before. You need
permission of your father for any type of marriage including Mut'ah
marriage.
2- A married Muslim man needs the permission of his Muslim wife for doing
Mut'ah with woman from Ahlul Kitano.
3- Mut'ah marriage aims to protect men and women from sinful sexual acts.
It should not be misused in any way.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi