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Question ID  1622  -  Major Sins
I have a question that needs a little bit of explanation and will take a little time of yours. Please do read and give me an advice for my guidance. I can take an oath on Holy Quran for the truthfulness of info that I am giving you. I live in Canada since 2009. I got married in 2003 in Pakistan. My mother in law hated me since beginning because we were not rich. After my marriage my mother in law told my wife not to live with me. My wife had a job in the city where her mother lived and I was in other city for my job. So she told her daughter that “you have a job here, you must not leave your job”. And that’s how my wife spent around 6 months away from my home. Someone told them that you cannot do this. They contacted a religious cleric and he told her mother that you have no authority to do this, send her to her husband as soon as possible. My wife came to my house and after sometime, my mother in law packed her bags and came to the city where I was living. She started living with us. I moved to several cities because of job and she stayed with us. She spent 3 years with us (in between she went back and forth to her home city for a month or so and then came back). My mother in law has a rich history of hatching conspiracies. Her own brothers and sisters have discords. Some has severed relationships (Qata- rahm) with each other. Because of this lady, my father in law has completely cut off his relationships with all his brothers and sisters. He has not seen his brothers or sisters for decades. I am sure he is not allowed to see anyone. I moved to Canada in 2009, and in 2014 she packed her bags again and now she is here living with us. Now some words of my financial position in this country. In 2012 I got a job in some other city of Canada where I had to live for 15 days and then use to come back home for 6 days. Was getting very good money. Every month gave my wife $$2000 to $2500 to fulfil the needs. My expenses rose. Bought a house on mortgage with 5% down payment, a good car and whatever you can think of. I told my wife that I have given this house to her as a gift. If we will sell this, she will get the money. If we put it on rent she will get the rent. I bought the car in her name. After a year of this job I realized because of my absence my 2 kids suffered a lot. They had started talking about church because my wife had put them in a church during summer vacations. She paid for this service. This happens when you have lot of money but low level of wisdom. I prayed to Allah to bring me back to my family. After one and a half year of my job, employer gave me a layoff. I was happy. I spent 3 months at home finding a job. Had some saving so I took care of mortgage, bills and other expenses. My wife, started buying grocery as a contribution to run the home. After 3 months all my saving was spent, but then Allah gave me a good job in the city. Money wise I was getting half as compared to my previous job. So my wife kept the groceries in her own hand to help in running the home. After all the expenses I am left with nothing. But I am happy that my kids are getting the attention and they are learning the basics of religion. I have taught my younger one Adhan, Salat and now he is learning urdu which will help him in learning how to read Quran. I am happy. After looking at this scenario, my mother in law started filling the ears of my wife. All day long they talk in ears, they whisper in ears all day long. “HE does not give you monthly expenses, you must demand money from him, this is your right, you have to fight for it”. We had a fight few days ago. Two women started yelling in front of me and I started yelling in front of them. According to my mother in law, my kids are living in my house because of her. She can take the kids away with my wife any time. A month and a half ago I had put my car on sale, just to save a bit more money to give to my wife. The car has not yet sold. Day before yesterday, my wife arranged Aftaar in Imambargah, but they never offered any Aftaar to me because I did not pay for that Aftaar. I do not eat at home because my wife does not cook anything. I told her to cook and her mother started yelling that “you are making my daughter a slave, she is not your slave anymore. You buy your own food and make your own food”. All cooking is done by her mother now. Mother and daughter both are now digging the foundations of this home. Both are filling this home with fire. Mother in law has sowed the seed of hatred (as she has plenty of experience in this skill) in this house and wife is watering it daily. I do not want her to live in this house, she is not a widow or divorced. She must go back in her own home, to her husband where she belongs. But she is not willing to leave. I am afraid I will lose my temper and someone will get killed in this. I do not want to carry the burden of this sin whose reward is nothing but hellfire. Help me and guide me. You are like my father, advise me like a father. Nothing will be on your shoulder. I am responsible for everything. I do not care about this worldly life. Advise me to save my Aakhiraah. Wassalam.
 
Answer:-  You need to get a respected wise person to mediate between you and your
wife. As you are in Canada, you may consult Dr Sayed Khalil Tabatabaei who
is Montreal or any other pious Alaim. If you are away from Montreal, you
may contact nearest Shia Masjid or Center. If you inform us about your city
or town, we might be able to suggest.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi




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Question ID  1547  -  Major Sins
What is the punishment for someone who has taken an oath at mola Abbas (as) alam and lied on 2 seperate occasions? Also what kuffarah can be done for a woman who was compelled to have an abortion by her circumstances? Relationship with husband wasn't good, and he was advising her to abort the child Aswell, also mentally the stress of everything was too much for her If a man married a woman of his choice against his parents wishes, but few months later also agreed to marry the woman of his parents choice as a second wife, but did not tell his parents or the second wife that he is currently married and the first wife is pregnant, is this allowed? And he has now been married to this second wife for nearly 9 yrs and never had physical relations with her, and is no longer providing for her financially, is it better for him to divorce her or to keep her for the sake of family relations? The second wife is not happy but not wanting divorce either, but is the man commuting sin by keeping her as a wife when he has no interest in her other than she is related and families will be upset if they now divorce?
 
Answer:-  > Q
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> What is the punishment for someone who has taken an oath at mola Abbas
> (as) alam and lied on 2 separate occasions?
> =E2=80=8BA1) =E2=80=8BIt is major sin to lie deliberately and more danger=
ous sin to lie
> with oath.
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> hat kuffarah can be done for a woman who was compelled to have an abortio=
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> by her circumstances? Relationship with husband wasn\'t good, and he was
> advising her to abort the child Aswell, also mentally the stress of
> everything was too much for her
> =E2=80=8BA2) Abortion is forbidden in Islam because it is killing an inno=
cent
> child. Every one involved in this crime must pay the Diyya Penalty and se=
ek
> forgiveness.
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> If a man married a woman of his choice against his parents wishes, but fe=
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> months later also agreed to marry the woman of his parents choice as a
> second wife, but did not tell his parents or the second wife that he is
> currently married and the first wife is pregnant, is this allowed? And he
> has now been married to this second wife for nearly 9 yrs and never had
> physical relations with her, and is no longer providing for her
> financially, is it better for him to divorce her or to keep her for the
> sake of family relations? The second wife is not happy but not wanting
> divorce either, but is the man commuting sin by keeping her as a wife whe=
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> he has no interest in her other than she is related and families will be
> upset if they now divorce?
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> =E2=80=8BA3) Husband must provide his wife with all her livelihood needs.=
If he is
unable to fulfil his duty, he must leave her to have her own life unless if
she wants him to keep her.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi=E2=80=8B
 
Question ID  1466  -  Major Sins
i am sorry to ask such a terrible question but i wanted to know the reason behind it, i have heard that there are some girls called shemales that have penis,if this is true how could god create such a human being?
 
Answer:-  This is due some hormone abnormalities and can be treated. This if the
matter is created.
Some bad persons who were created as males or females , try to act like or
look like other gender which is a very bad and sinful behavior . such
sinners are cursed if they insist on this sin.
Wassalam.
mohammad al-Musawi

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Question ID  1419  -  Major Sins
Salaamunalikum. My father is 49 years old and hr has not done haj yet and we are facing problem of money from 3 years is this the reason of not getting money
 
Answer:-  Hajj is not obligatory on those who do not have enough money for it.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi
 
Question ID  1186  -  Major Sins
I just got to know my friend had sex with a non Muslim na mahram but he doesn't know that I know about it how should I treat him or live with him with him being my Roommate.?
 
Answer:-  What do you mean by : he does not know about it?
If he has committed this major sin, you must tell him to seek forgiveness
after repenting. You are not responsible if your room mate commits a sin.
You need to advise him to avoid sins because sins are the way to miserable
life here and here after.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
 
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