Category: Marriage
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Question ID 3678 Tuesday 10th of January 2017
Question:
Salaam, I miss Naushaba Dulare Sayyed, age 28 years, from Mumbai India by profession I m a doctor dealing with genetic disorder. My problem is related to my marriage. The problem is like this. Since from last 7 years my parents are finding an appropriate guy for me that they are still not getting any guy some or the other problem happen and the marriage got cancel every time. And every time whenever they saw the istekhara for the marriage it come no. and because of these they are getting disappointed and depressed too. I to go under desperation and felling very low each and every time the boys family come and I feel like insulting myself, my self-respect is now hurting and they disapprove me and my parents also get very disappointed and hurted too. The life is going on very complicated stage. I can’t see my parents like this anymore that’s why I have decided one of the thing that I want a marry a person I know and I also know that person will not annoyed me. I like a person from last 8 years I have said my parents too but the guy was Christian they were not ready and they said me that they will not tolerate the thing that I marry the person and I left the story there but now as the days are passing living at parents’ home is becoming so difficult without marrying any one. I know that person very well and I know that my parents are finding the person like him for me but they are not ready as because of cast and society pressure and I can’t see my parents any more like this I don’t want to run and marry the person how can I solve my problem. We both don’t want to run and marry since it will be not right decision we both want to convince my parent, he is orphan and he now again proposed me for marriage and he is not forcing me to change the cast or any other thing he told you can follow your own cast and there won’t be harm to I from his side, I really want to marry that person as I can see that the person is really a good human being what would I do to explain my parents about these what will be the right way to marry that person I ask my one of my cousin to do istekhara the istekhara for our marriage was also good. How can I explain my parents what is the way of marrying that person. Please help me out it is matter of my life. khuda haffiz
Answer:
Salamun Alaykum wr wb
I write to you being an educated person and I hope that you'll appreciate
the facts which I will mention.
1. A Muslim female is not allowed to marry a non Muslim under any
circumstances; if the person whom you like to marry is really a good
person, he should have been Muslim by now, after 8 years of knowing you. If
he simply reads basic things about Islam and Quran, he will know that Islam
is a pure message from God to guide all human beings. If he insists on
remaining non Muslim following his parents, it means that he is not fit at
all to marry you. After all, the Islamic Shariat is very clear in this
point, that no marriage at all between Muslim female and non Muslim male.
2. You are living in India where millions of Shia Muslims live so it or not
difficult to find a suitable match for you, especially when you are
educated and working. You or your family need to contact some respected
personalities who can seek out a suitable person for you. Being from Sadat
family, there are thousands of Sadat families in Mumbai; you or your
parents may contact respected Ulema in Mumbai to suggest suitable
candidates.
3. You wrote that one of your friends made Estikhara for you to marry the
person and it came good. This Estikhara is invalid because the act itself
is not allowed in Islam; it is like someone who seeks Estikhara to drink
alchohol and it comes good, does it have any meaning? Estekhara is valid
when it is regarding an act which is allowed not an act which is Haraam.
If you or your parents need any help in this matter you can contact our
trustees in Najafi House, Mumbai 9.
Wassalam
Mohammed Al-Musawi
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Question ID 3677 Tuesday 10th of January 2017
Question:
Assalamoalykum How to do muta ? Can we both do it by ourself n if yes can we do it by phonecall n how it can be done?
Answer:
Marriage in Islam can be permanent and can be time fixed which is called
Mut'ah marriage, which is also called Aqd Mu'aqqat. It has got almost all
the conditions of the permanent marriage but there is no obligation on the
husband to spend on his temporary wife and there is no inheritance between
them. Temporary marriage must have a Dowry (Mahr given to the wife) as well
as a specific time period agreed upon by both parties.
The recitation of Aqd is similar to the recitation of a permanent marriage
Aqd, with the difference being the mentioning of the time period agreed
upon.
The Aqd is recited in Arabic starting with the woman telling the man
(Zawwajtukah Nafsi A'la Al Mahr Al Ma'loum Lil Muddatil Ma'louma)
The response of the man ( Qabiltu Al Tazwija Li Nafsi) or (Qabilt)
A virgin girl needs in her marriage the permission or approval of her
father or paternal grandfather.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 3655 Sunday 18th of December 2016
Question:
As salaam alekum maulana, meri shadi ko 3 saal ho chuke hai. do bacche bhi hai maula k karam se, ek ladka ek ladki, allah ka shukr hai.hum dusre bacche me bhi gap chchte the par nahi ho paya condom ka bhi use kiya tha,phir bhi baccha ho gaya, ab hum abhi filhaal baccha nahi chachte hai, par condom ya i-pil se bhi safe nahi ho pati hai pregnancy, kahin na kahin chuk ho hi jati hai, to kai aur safe upae ya technic batae please agar ho to ke sex bhi ho jae aur koi pregnency ki tension bhi na ho.. hum dono abhi koi aur baccha nahi chachte hai..par mujhe abhi nasbandi bhi nahi karwani hai,,ek baacha aur chachta hu par 10 saal baad. jawaz sirf meri Email id azeem.haider768@gmail.com pe hi diyega.
Answer:
There are many ways to prevent pregnancy temporarily; but it is not allowed
to prevent pregnancy permanently. You may consult your doctors about the
best and safest ways to do it temporarily.
If you don't want more children, that does not mean that more children will
be bad for you; If Allah wants to grant you more children.
We must submit to the will of Allah and with all our arrangements we have
to accept whatever Allah grants us because He knows everything and we don't
know.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 3613 Wednesday 9th of November 2016
Question:
I am getting married soon but my fiancé had earlier did muta with someone else his relation broke and we met ...is it right to get married ??
Answer:
Yes it is right to get married if your fiance is religion practising and
with good manners.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
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Question ID 3585 Monday 17th of October 2016
Question:
Can we have sex with wife who is pregnant? If yes then till which month of pregnancy we can engage in such activity?
Answer:
Yes it is allowed as far as her health permits.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
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