Category: Marriage
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Question ID 2676 Saturday 11th of July 2015
Question:
Salam dear respected Sayed, Is it permitted for a Shia male to do taqiyah and pretend that he belongs to no Islamic school of thought but is a Muslim in order to get married to a Sunni woman? And inorder to avoid emtional pain/emotional harm because of fearing that the Sunni woman will not want to marry him due to being a Shia Muslim? And the after marriage then he can stop doing taqiyah and tell her that he is a Shia Muslim?
Answer:
Taqiyyah aims to protecting the believer from any expected harm. This case
has many possibilities :
1.If the woman agrees to marry him only because of he is a Sunni. In this
case he is not allowed to show that he is a Sunni when he is in fact not.
2. If the woman agrees to marry for other reasons away from his sect. In
this case he can hide his faith to avoid possible harm.
3. If the family of the woman usually refuses a Shia man to marry their
Sunni daughter, but the woman does not have him being a Sunni as a
condition. In this case he can hide his faith.
In general, I do not advise him to build his life on hiding his faith
because his wife will his life partner and he can not hide his faith from
her for long.
Wassalam.
Mohammad Al-Musawi
On Fri, Jul 10, 2015 at 7:50 PM, Madeen Saddique
> Mr/Mrs Madeen Saddique
> posted a new question on wabil website, the details are below...
> Category : Marriage
> Question : Salam dear respected Sayed,
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> Is it permitted for a Shia male to do taqiyah and pretend that he belongs
> to no Islamic school of thought but is a Muslim in order to get married to
> a Sunni woman? And inorder to avoid emtional pain/emotional harm because of
> fearing that the Sunni woman will not want to marry him due to being a Shia
> Muslim? And the after marriage then he can stop doing taqiyah and tell her
> that he is a Shia Muslim?
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Question ID 2660 Tuesday 7th of July 2015
Question:
My wife and I had a love marraige ..we love each other a lot , but due to some reasons we started having fights related to her family problems and she became very depresed and I dont know how she started talking to an old friend and it kept on increasing untill they had some sort of affection within them , after I caught her she was very ashamed of what she did , she says she never met him .. what should I do ? Should I forgive her and let our relation go on ? Or is there a chance she might do this again ?
Answer:
You should warn her and take from her a promise that she will never talk
intimately with any other man but her husband. If she promises you, you
forgive her.
You should give her more love and never leave her feel lonely.
May Allah (SWT) forgive her and you and all Momineen.
Wassalam.
Mohammad Al-Musawi
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Question ID 2650 Friday 3rd of July 2015
Question:
Follow up question for ID 2647. If the wife keep refusing about her duties being a Muslim women, can both of them still leave together?
Answer:
Yes they can because Talaq is disliked unless there is no way out and no
hope at all to sort things out.
On Fri, Jul 3, 2015 at 12:29 AM, Jolland Castro
> Mr/Mrs Jolland Castro
> posted a new question on wabil website, the details are below...
> Category : Marriage
> Question : Follow up question for ID 2647.
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> If the wife keep refusing about her duties being a Muslim women, can both
> of them still leave together?
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Question ID 2648 Friday 3rd of July 2015
Question:
Salam. If the wife of a Muslim man, ignoring him for sex, what should the Muslim man do? Sukran and wassalam.
Answer:
He should advise her and show her evidences about her responsibilities as a
wife towards her husband. There are many Hadetthes in this regard which can
be given to her.
Wassalam.
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 2647 Friday 3rd of July 2015
Question:
Salam. If a married Muslim man has already children, but his wife is not practicing real Islam, (example: not wearing hijab, nor doing salat), what should the Muslim man do even he always reminds his wife about her duties being a Muslim woman?
Answer:
He should keep on advising his wife with good words and nice way. If she
refuses to obey Allah (SWT), it is her sin not her husband's. He should do
his best to guide her, but the result is not on him.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi