Category: Family issues

Total : 74 Results

Question ID 1889 Sunday 31st of August 2014

Question:

Salaamalaikum My son has had illegitimate relationship with a sunni girl, he has repented but has ended up fathering a child. I would like to know what are mine and his duties towards this illegitimate child(girl)of my son. Should this child be given for adoption to any muslim family? If the child is to be brought up by my son, how will he introduce this child to the rest of the family and community, it being an illegitimate and that her mother is a sunni woman?

Answer:

Father is responsible to look after his child.
The child is his child no matter who is the mother and what were the
circumstances.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi

Question ID 1856 Saturday 16th of August 2014

Question:

Salaam alaikum syed musawi, I have emailed you my question as i do not want it to be seen on your website. It has been few days i am waiting for your reply. Maybe it has gone in your junk mail please check. Thankyou.

Answer:

Please email it again to wabil@wabil.com


On Fri, Aug 15, 2014 at 9:26 PM, syeda samra haider zaidi <
wabil1895232@wabil.com>Reply-To: wrote:

> Mr/Mrs syeda samra haider zaidi
> posted a new question on wabil website, the details are below...
> Category : Family issues
> Question : Salaam alaikum syed musawi,
> I have emailed you my question as i do not want it to be seen on your
> website. It has been few days i am waiting for your reply. Maybe it has
> gone in your junk mail please check.
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> Thankyou.
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Question ID 1620 Saturday 5th of July 2014

Question:

Dear Sayyid, I married a momina girl without taking any dowry and I am on a very good post.I am Indian. I was getting very large amount of money in dowry from many different people who were rich and willing to marry their daughters to me. My parents were also desperate to marry me with any such girl who is having a rich father. But I married a girl from educated sayyid family who is middle class and my wife is well educated and prays 5 times a day and fasts in ramazan. I am happy with my wife and now in last 6 years of my marriage , I got 2 sons also. My parents still mentally torture me on differnt occasions and scolds me that I ruined and destroyed their plans and we could have become rich by taking dowry or by marrying a girl of some influential person's daughter. I feel very bad and sometimes I quarrel with them and feels very bad as I know that its a great sin to say anything to your old parents. But I am unable to control my anger at times and say some bad words to them. I dont know , what should I do? Please advice me, I married with my wife against the will of my parents and they were not there at the time of my marriage. Should I divorce my wife? what do you Advice to my parents? Thanks.

Answer:

Do not divorce your wife , and do not hurt her feelings.
You must tolerate your parents even if they do injustice to you. Never
speak any word which can hurt them. Always be very polite when you talk to
them or respond to their wrong opinion. Allah will never bechappybwith any
one who hurts his parents feelings.
Keep balance between your parents and your wife and maintain justice when
dealing with both sides, but be very polite with your parents, even when
they are wrong.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi

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Question ID 1440 Thursday 29th of May 2014

Question:

salam alaikum, , is it wajib for wife to obey legal requests from husband? if she is not listening what maximum action husband can take? also same question for children 2.is it wajib to do umra every month? 3.if we have not done umra in any month and still want to go to makkah for only tawaf , is this ok, or first we have to do umrah for that month? thanks abid

Answer:

> Q1.is it wajib for wife to obey legal requests from husband? if she is not
> listening what maximum action husband can take?
> A1. Wife must obey her husband when he asks for his rights as a husband.
> Denying husband's rights is a sinful act and it will have very bad results
> in this life and hereafter on the wife who denyed her husband's rights.
> Husband should advise her to obey, then if she insists on denying his
> rights, he can turn his face from her while sleeping. He can ask a person
> from her family who might have an effect on her to talk to her.
> Q 2.is it wajib to do umra every month?

A2. Not obligatory to perform Umra but only if you want to enter Makkah .

> Q3.if we have not done umra in any month and still want to go to makkah
> for only tawaf , is this ok, or first we have to do umrah for that month?

A3. You can not enter Makkah with out Umra in that month. After Umra you
can do Tawaf or enter Makkah with out Umra for that month.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi

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Question ID 1412 Wednesday 21st of May 2014

Question:

Salaamunalikum..please help us as we are facing very tough period because my mother and father are both ill from last 1 month...please give us dua so we can recite and ask Allah for their shifa

Answer:

وإذا مرِضتُ فَهوَ يَشفين
WA ITHA MARIZTU FAHOW YASHFEEN
to be repeated as many times as possible.
Ayatul Kursi seven times and Sura alHamd forty times.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi

WABIL - World Ahlulbayt(as) Islamic League, London.