Category: Family issues
Total : 74 Results
Question ID 785 Sunday 6th of October 2013
Assalam Sayyed I have some questions by my wife, they are as follows: 1.) Is it permissible to shave, shape, pluck or make changes to eyebrow? 2.) Is it permissible to straighten ones teeth? 3.) Is it permissible to increase the size ones breast using cream, pills or any other way? 4.) At what age is circumcision best for a child? 5.) Is family planning permissible? If yes, which is the best way? Thanks.
> Q1.) Is it permissible to shave, shape, pluck or make changes to eyebrow?
A1. Yes it is permissible but it is not allowed for female to show her
beauty to non Mahram.
> Q2.) Is it permissible to straighten ones teeth?
A2. Yes it is permissible.
> Q3.) Is it permissible to increase the size ones breast using cream, pills
> or any other way?
A3. Yes it is permissible if it is not harmful for health.
> Q4.) At what age is circumcision best for a child?
A4. Best is on the seventh day after birth of the child.
Q5.) Is family planning permissible? If yes, which is the best way?
A5. Temporary family planning like pills etc is allowed, but permanent
termination like surgery is not allowed.
Question ID 646 Friday 2nd of August 2013
یا علی علیه السلام مدد سلام علیکم خدمت شما و تمام همکاران عزیزتان من از شما یک کمک میخواهم که من چگونه می توانم در کاردانی رشته علوم انسانی در دانشگاه های انگلیس تحصیل کنم. پدر بنده ملیت پاکستانی دارد و مادرم ملیت ایرانی. لطفا مرا راهنمایی کنید متتظر راهنمایی شما هستم. والسلام عباس شریفی قم ایران
Salamun Alaykum wr wb
We are a charity and not a university nor we have facility to arrange such
services. We pray for your success.
2013/8/2 abbas sharifi
> Mr/Mrs abbas sharifi
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> Category : Family issues
> Question : یا علی علیه السلام مدد
> سلام علیکم خدمت شما و تمام همکاران عزیزتان
> من از شما یک کمک میخواهم که من چگونه می توانم در کاردانی رشته علوم انسانی
> در دانشگاه های انگلیس تحصیل کنم.
> پدر بنده ملیت پاکستانی دارد و مادرم ملیت ایرانی.
> لطفا مرا راهنمایی کنید
> متتظر راهنمایی شما هستم.
> عباس شریفی
> قم ایران
Question ID 589 Friday 12th of July 2013
assalamalaikum This question is regarding my mother,she is living with me for many years during that time she also visited to my sister and relatives , but now she has developed some bad relation with my wife and me as we cannot give her proper time.when i scold my wife she is relieved .My wife does all her routine work I tried to convince her to my best to both of them even i tried my level best to comfort her but now she is saying that she wants me too leave me as i am living in saudi arabia and she sometimes feel boring as there is no relatives and friends here.She is saying to go to india and which i feel that nobody will take care for her better than me, and i dont want to spoil my akhira.Whenever she visits India my brother and sister always complainig for her attitude .If your answer is that to behave her good and take care mostly ,that i am doing to her for the last many years, what i will do in this situation
Do not leave your mother to go away from you even if she has bad attitude
towards you and your wife.
Tell your wife to tolerate and keep on tolerating and to try to be better
Never show your mother that you are upset with her bad attitude.
Serving your mother is your way to success in this life and hereafter. This
way must have difficulties but it is worth every difficulty.
Question ID 551 Wednesday 26th of June 2013
Dear Sir I am writing to you on behalf of a friends son. Please if you could reply in detail we would be grateful . I am at uni and still have two years to complete my studies before I start working . My father in his 70's now has trusted me in all his money matters - I paid all his bills credit cards etc for atleast 5 years now. Since last 3/4 years I had started cheating on my father and spent his hard earned income & his pension money on just wasteful things for myself. My father is a honest hard working man who with hardship put me through private school too. In these years I have usurped atleast 15000 £ from him. I thought I was clever ( surely under the influence of the shaitan) but I have been caught by my elder sister & my mother knows about it too. My father is rightly been protected by them both and not told. I am ashamed & sorry about what I have done soo cruelly to my father & the suffering I have caused my mother - she has loved. cared for me and has done everything for me all my life. My sister is the reason of me being able to study and go to university - I don't think I can ever pay her back for all she has done for me. She is rightfully extremely upset too. I want to ask you what I should be doing now and later in my life to make amends for this horrible thing I have done to my family. Can I ever pay my parents specially my father for this crime? What are my chances with Allah of forgiveness - what changes do I make in my every day life? My mother is a broken lady sad & crying all the time and very upset with me ... How can I make her trust me ever again? I live miles away from home but how can I show her I have or will change? What duas should I recite to make Allah not angry at me & forgive me for this major sin. Please help May Allah reward you. Khuda hafiz
It is a major sin to cheat and usurp the money of your father who trusted you.
You need to sincerely repent and cry to seek forgiveness from him and from Allah.
You must pay back every pence you have taken wrongly.
You must declare to your mother and sister your sincere repentance and your readiness for any thing they suggest.
Keep on repeating Istighfaar day and night especially after Night Prayer and during Sujood.
Question ID 545 Saturday 22nd of June 2013
Maine ek hindu brahmin ladke se marriage kiya hai hamari love marriage hai aur shaadi ko 10 saal ho gaye hai kuch 4 saalo se hamare beech main bohat problems chal rahi hai.mere husband ka bahar dusri aurat ke sath affair chal raha hai aur woh iss wajah se mujhe chodna chahte hai.hamare ek 5 saal ka baccha bhi hai.mere husband ghar bacche aur meri taraf bilkul dhayan nahi dete .pls meri help kare
There is no marriage at all between Muslim female and non Muslim male. If yo=
u are a Muslim and he is a Non Muslim, then the relationship is sinful and m=
ust stop immediately, with out the need of Talaq, because there was no valid=
Islamic Nikah at all .
If he became a Muslim before the marriage and still a Muslim, then the marri=
age is valid and you may consult a local Alim to solve your matrimonial prob=