Category: Family issues
Total : 74 Results
Question ID 3395 Wednesday 15th of June 2016
Question:
Slm agha. Mere shohar nay mujhe ghar say nikal dia hai.uski maa humare bich larai larwati hain jan boj k. Ek mah say ziada ho chuka mujhe nikale hoye.ab wo humari divorce krwana chahti hai. Mgr mai nahe chahti qk mera ek 10. Month ka beta hai. Please koi dua bataye k wo apni maa kochor kr mujhe lainay aa jaye . Or mujh mai intrust lain.please na umeed mt kijye.koi hal batye k mera shohar wapis mil jaye mujhe.
Answer:
Salamun Alaykum wr wb
You can repeat resiting YA GHAFOURU YA WADOUD
and ALLAHUMMA SALLI ALA MOHAMMAD WA AALI MOHAMMAD WA AJJIL FARAJAHUM.
Wassalam
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Question ID 3303 Saturday 30th of April 2016
Question:
Wabil walidaina ahsana Does a girls parents in law come under this category? Please elobrate a little
Answer:
Walidain are the real father and the real mother.
Being good to the parents in law is very good and it has also the reward of
pleasing the husband which is a great reward.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 3301 Friday 29th of April 2016
Question:
Asalaam Alaikum, Since childhood my sister has had a jealous nature which often results in many family disputes. She has a lot of anger in her, but does not take responsibilities for her mistakes but instead blames others for things which have gone wrong in her life. This also contributed to the breakdown of her marriage, now she has returned to her parental home with her daughter. Her daughter is now 4 years old. Whenever my sister contributes to an argument, she does not allow anyone to take her daughter out of the situation, but instead forces her to stay in this negative environment. Whenever my sister has a disagreement with anyone at home, she tells her daughter to stop talking and interacting with certain family members. She tells her that her extended family members do not care for her or her daughter and that we only care about ourselves. She does not take our advice and remains angry with everyone. We all love her and her daughter very much, but she is now putting hatred into the heart of her daughter towards her extended family. Her daughter is also developing anger too. We are uncertain how to help her, please could you advise us?
Answer:
Good attitude and bad attitude can not be changed but when the person
himself or herself decides to change after being convinced that he/ she
needs to change. One of the best ways to convince the person is to make his
or her friends talk to him about the harms of bad attitude and the need for
change. Try to make her friends talk to her gently to explain the harm of
bad behavior on her and more importantly on her child.
No doubt, Du'a is very useful always for every matter.
You also need to avoid any word or act which can make her angry and try
your best to treat with her in a nice way. That should make her respond
with a nice way as well.
Wassalam.
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 3260 Thursday 7th of April 2016
Question:
السلام عليكم سماحة السيد الفاضل هل يجوز ابقاء امراءة مسلمة محجبة كمربية في البيت . انا اسكن مع بناتي 12 سنة و 13 سنة واعمل من الساعة الثامنة صباحا حتى الثامنة مساءا. لكم جزيل الشكر والتقدير
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وعلیکم السلام و رحمة الله و برکاته.
نعم يجوز ذلك لكن عليك ان تحذر من الخلوة معها .
والسلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
محمد الموسوي
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> Category : Family issues
> Question : السلام عليكم سماحة السيد الفاضل
> هل يجوز ابقاء امراءة مسلمة محجبة كمربية في البيت . انا اسكن مع بناتي 12
> سنة و 13 سنة واعمل من الساعة الثامنة صباحا حتى الثامنة مساءا. لكم جزيل
> الشكر والتقدير
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Question ID 3207 Friday 11th of March 2016
Question:
As salaam alaykum My question is my husband has three sisters and two of them maintain gòod relations with me but one avoids talking to me and when they visit me i serve them the best. I said to my husband that i will just maintain salaam dua with her so he gets angry and if i want to discuss any problem regarding this issue he says i dont want to listenand he listens to all the problems of his sisters should i meet the person who avoids me and just wants her brother only what should i do plz help
Answer:
A Good Muslima wife should always obey her husband. Meet his sister who is
avoiding you and be obedient to your husband. Allah (SW) will then bless
you.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
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