Question ID 478 - Marriage |
salaam, can you please tell me what to do, i am not in a financial position to get married and also i dont know anyone who would be willing to do a mutah contract, i am 20, it is a very big problem for me, my parents say i need to get a degree first etc and i dont know how can i explain to them, i have tried hinting many times to get me married but they dont take it seriously, i am afraid of falling deeper and deeper, i have fallen enough, i need help please |
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Answer:- 1.You need to convince your parents that you need to get married to save yourself from sinning. This can be done either by writing a letter to your parents or through persons whom your parents respect and listen to. You may talk to one of them to request him to talk to your parents and convince them.
2. You should refrain from evil desires and control over yourself and never think about sinning to fulfill a desire.
3. Remember always the great reward of pious ness and sever punishment of sinning.
4. Fasting is very useful in your case as we read the sayings of the Prophet (SAWA), so try to fast as many days as you can.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi |
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