Category: Marriage
Total : 371 Results
Question ID 1350 Wednesday 7th of May 2014
Question:
I am shia girl and want to do mutah with sunni boy. We are good friends and i feel very comfortable to have mutah with him. Can i do mutah with sunni boy to save myself from sin.
Answer:
Virgin girl needs her father's permission for any type of marriage
including Mut'a marriage.
If you get such permission or if you are not virgin, then you are allowed
to do so provided that the Mut'a marriage with a non Shia Muslim does not
harm your faith or religious practice.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 1292 Sunday 13th of April 2014
Question:
Salaam walikum brethren in Islam, My question is that if a woman is in janabat can she breast feed her child or does she need to do Gusl and then breast feed the child. Also we have a family business of 6 yrs but the business has declined so much that we are considering of selling it or closing it as we are getting more and more in debt. Also some spiritual person has told us that we have got baandish on us and a jinn is stopping all our progress due to black magic. We don\\\'t really believe this but looking at our circumstances what can one say! Can you help us to get rid of this jinn and Baandish? Wsalaam jazakallah kher
Answer:
Salamun Alaykum wr wb
1. A woman in Janabat is allowed to breast feed her child. Some of the
Ulama say that it is Makrouh, but not Haraam, and other Ulama say that it
is even not Kakrouh.
2. Be sure that your Khums and all your dues are paid in full, and pay
Sadaqa and keep repeating Estighfaar, your situation will be better Insha
Allah.
Reciting Ayatul Kursi and Sura Falaq and Sura Naas is very helpful to be
protected from evil.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 1284 Thursday 10th of April 2014
Question:
Salaam aleekum, I am a Muslim woman living in the west and I follow Al-Sistani. My question is perhaps somewhat embarassing: a year ago I got married, but it turned out to be a disastrous relationship and I went back to my family after several days of marriage. I was still a virgin, but I had performed oral sex on him and he had seen me naked. But there was no intercourse. We got legitimately divorced. Now, a year after this, I have a new fiance. He and I are very much in love and I am very happy with him. I have never been in love with someone like this before. But after hearing about my previous marriage, he keeps insisting on details of what happened on the wedding night. I told him I'm still a virgin, but he keeps asking about other sexual acts. He is quite a jealous man and I'm afraid if I tell him about the oral sex, he will leave me or never love me the same again. Is it permissible for me to lie to him and tell him that absolutely nothing happened, not even oral sex? It feels terrible to lie, but I don't want to lose him or hurt him. Thanks in advance for your answer.
Answer:
You are not bound to tell him about your past. You should not do so when
there is a possibility of harm on you. Just say general things with out any
details. You may say : No sexual intercourse took place. This should be
enough. Do not go into harmful details.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Msuawi
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Question ID 1228 Tuesday 18th of March 2014
Question:
Salam Sayyid, I have been in mutah with an iraqi guy for over 6years (we follwed Sayyid Hakeem on this ruling for mutah with virgin) I was also a sunni before I met him and alhamdulilah now follow the ahlulbayt, I am non arab, and due to his family not accepting me (racism) he has decided to leave me to pursue perm marriage elsewhere to keep his family happy. I am currently still in the contract and have about 3 months till it ends, am I obliged to maintain martial relationships ie. Support him emotionally physically and mentally? I am having a difficult time accepting this situation, can you advise on any prayers in this time ?
Answer:
I am sad to know about him leaving you after a marriage of six years just
because of racism. Mo'min and Mo'mina are equal in front of Allah no matter
from which ethnicity they come. All humans are from Adam and Eve. May Allah
(SWT) help you and guide all of us.
You must fulfil your responsibility as a wife according to the marriage
agreement between you and your husband.
Keep on repeating YA GHAFOUR YA WADOUD as many times as you can.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 1221 Sunday 16th of March 2014
Question:
Please this is not a personal question, it's a question I have been asked many times by other sisters. Your answer will clarify any misleading information out there. After ejaculation of the husband during intercourse, he still cannot bring his wife to orgasm, even after lengthy time of foreplay and sexual intercourse, is the wife then allowed to use an external method(e.g. vibrator) on her own self, because her husband suggested it. You can answer privately or publicly as long as name and email is not publicized. Thank You Sayed.
Answer:
He can use external methods for her , but she can not do that for herself
by herself.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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