Category: Marriage
Total : 371 Results
Question ID 1123 Wednesday 5th of February 2014
Question:
salamunalaykum sir mai ek shia ladki hun or mai shadi se pehle 1 gunaahe azeem kar baithi...i was in physical relation with sunni guy,private parts came into contact intercourse did not happen...neither we did mutaa... i wanted to marry him or mujhe us hi time sharmindgi hoti thi allah se...but mere parents kabhi tayyar nahin hote...or 1 din 1 bohot achche nek ladke ka rishta aaya or mere parents unke liye tayyar hogaye..from that day i left out everythng maine us sunni ladke se har rishta tod diya taaki mai 1 nek ladke se shadi karke apne waaldain ko thodi si khhushi de doon and i got married with shia guy or bohot sharminda hoon allah se apne gunah k liye din raat astaghfar karti hoon...or allah k karam se both of us are very much happy ab har amal or ka dhyan rakhti hun or apni har zimmedari poori karti hoon or apne husband ko dil se mana hai..or is saal hum 2 baar ziyaraat par gaye arbaeen kay mauqe par...aap ye batayyie k kya mai apne husband k sath nikah mein hoon because i commited a major sin before my marriage?or kya mujhe apne past k baare mein apne husband ko batana chahye??maine sach islye chhupaya hum donon kay kay rishtey ki bhalayi k liyekindly give your feedback as soon as possible
Answer:
Keep seeking forgiveness from Allah and do not tell any one whom so ever
about previous sins. Your Nikah is valid.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi
Question ID 1113 Monday 3rd of February 2014
Question:
asalamoalykum i want to know can a syed widow lady marry with non seyed .thank u
Answer:
Marriage is allowed between Mo'min man and Mo'mina woman.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi
>
>
>
Question ID 1095 Friday 24th of January 2014
Question:
I am a girl soon to be married but I had previously been engaged to another person and we had done mutah with my fathers permission but it didnt work out and I really feel it was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. This engagement luckily had not been announced so no one in the community knows about it. Do I have to tell my current fiance about this previous engagement which involved mutah?
Answer:
No you do not need to tell him unless you are now not virgin and he thinks
that you are a virgin girl.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
>
>
Question ID 1086 Wednesday 22nd of January 2014
Question:
can a girl and a boy sit togather after nikah before rukhsati, or is their any limitation of hijab after nikah before rukhsati, or whatis the maximum authority a man have towards the girl he have got nikkah before rukhsati?
Answer:
After the Nikah which the Islamic marriage agreement, boy and girl are
husband and wife so they can sit together and touch each other and more. If
the wedding is been put as a condition for sexual intercourse, then the boy
should abide to this condition. No doubt, she remains his wife but with out
sexual intercourse till wedding.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
>
>
Question ID 1059 Thursday 16th of January 2014
Question:
salaam u alaykum I have a dilemma, I asked my father to get me married 2 years ago, I had also found someone who was willing to get married, now it has been 2 years I am still not married as my father said no at the time, in this time i have fallen into sin and I cant help thinking that if my father allowed me to get married 2 years ago I would have been in a much better position today, Is my complaint right ? should i be thinking this way, I know he is my father but when I asked to get married it was so that I do not fall into sin and do haraam, and he did not let me, this has caused me problems in the past 2 years, what can I do ? and is my father right to do this ? is there any punishment for stopping people from doing something the halal way ?
Answer:
Your sin is your sin and you can not blame your father for your sin. There
are millions of non married persons who do not commit sin. Seek forgiveness
from this sin and every sin, and control over your evil desires and try to
get married as much as you can try.
Wassalam.
Mohammadbal-Musawi
>
>