Category: Marriage
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Question ID 1050 Wednesday 15th of January 2014
Question:
salaam u alaykum is one allowed to marry christian, jew, hindu or buddhist for mutah ? and also a non beleiver ? wassalaam
Answer:
Mut'ah marriage between Muslim man and Christian or Jewish woman is
allowed, but it is not allowed with Hindu, Budhist or any other type of non
Muslim women. Married Muslim man needs his Muslim wife's permission before
having Mut'ah marriage with Christian or Jewish woman, according to the
Fatwa of Ayatullah Sistani.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 1031 Saturday 11th of January 2014
Question:
(1).kya mai uske sath muta kar sakta hu jisse meri shadi fix ho chuki hai?Abhi ek saal waqt hai shadi hone me islye. (2).kya mai khud muta ke process anjam de sakta hu.aur agar kar sakta hu to guzarish hai ki tareeqa(process) bataen,jisse mai gunah se bach saku.
Answer:
Yes, you can have Mut'ah marriage with her but she needs her father's
permission if she is a virgin.
You can find in this website how to recite the Mut'ah marriage agreement
(Aqd).
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 996 Thursday 2nd of January 2014
Question:
Assalaam wa alaikum, I recently learned while using my father\\\'s phone (with his permission), that he is having a sexual relations with another woman. He had text messages on there that he forgot to erase. I don\\\'t know if he has done muttah or did a second permanent marriage with this woman. She is sunni. Is that marriage valid as he never informed my mother. Also, my mother\\\'s mother passed away 2 months ago and my mom was in her home country at that time. My mother made it mandatory for my mother to work for the past 30 years. She was the one that was making most of the money. He invested a great deal of that money that he lost several years ago without her knowledge as she had no power over her finances. He is using part of his savings, and now part of the money that she is making to support this other woman. My mother does not know about any of this. Is the marriage still valid? Also, due to my father forcing her to work, she was unable to fulfill his intimate needs at times, but this was because she was forced to work many hours a day due to her profession, what is the ruling on that? And how does this affect the second marriage if at all? I don\\\'t know how to tell my mother, I need help please as she is already grieving from the loss of her mother. She has suffered a great deal because of my father, due to his ill usage of language and abuse of her finances. I have suffered as well due to other abuses. We do not live in London, and there are very few people here that I can turn to for help. I am concerned about my mother\\\'s well being as she is overworked and frail now, and her emotional well being from this shock she may have to take.
Answer:
1. It is not allowed for you to inform your mother about this matter, and
if you inform her you will be committing many major sins including
disclosing a secret, hurting your father, hurting your mother and back
biting of your father.
2. Your father knows what is the type of marriage he had with that lady and
you are not concerned to know the details. His marriage whether temporary
or permanent is valid and it does not require informing his first wife nor
seeking her permission.
3. Your mother's money is her money and your father has no right to take
her money with out her full consent and approval.
4. Pray for your parents and never add on their sufferings by disclosing
such matters which will not help them at all.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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> posted a new question on wabil website, the details are below...
> Category : Marriage
> Question : Assalaam wa alaikum, I recently learned while using my
> father\\\\\\\'s phone (with his permission), that he is having a sexual
> relations with another woman. He had text messages on there that he forgot
> to erase. I don\\\\\\\'t know if he has done muttah or did a second
> permanent marriage with this woman. She is sunni. Is that marriage valid
> as he never informed my mother. Also, my mother\\\\\\\'s mother passed
> away 2 months ago and my mom was in her home country at that time. My
> mother made it mandatory for my mother to work for the past 30 years. She
> was the one that was making most of the money. He invested a great deal of
> that money that he lost several years ago without her knowledge as she had
> no power over her finances. He is using part of his savings, and now part
> of the money that she is making to support this other woman. My mother
> does not know about any of this. Is the marriage still valid? Also, due
> to my father forcing her to work, she was unable to fulfill his intimate
> needs at times, but this was because she was forced to work many hours a
> day due to her profession, what is the ruling on that? And how does this
> affect the second marriage if at all? I don\\\\\\\'t know how to tell my
> mother, I need help please as she is already grieving from the loss of her
> mother. She has suffered a great deal because of my father, due to his ill
> usage of language and abuse of her finances. I have suffered as well due
> to other abuses. We do not live in London, and there are very few people
> here that I can turn to for help. I am concerned about my mother\\\\\\\'s
> well being as she is overworked and frail now, and her emotional well being
> from this shock she may have to take.
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Question ID 989 Tuesday 31st of December 2013
Question:
Salaamun Alaikum, I am married and my wife is pregnant, and we wish and expect a baby boy.. So is there any dua/recomendation which can help us. Thanks and Regards
Answer:
Repeating Estighfaar is very useful.
Promise Allah (SWT) to name the child as Mohammad or Ali if male and you
must fulfill the promise.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
Question ID 983 Saturday 28th of December 2013
Question:
If a wife's husband is gone for three years and they coomunicate via skype/video chatting, are they allowed to video chat and rub their own body parts(like wife rubbing her clitorus but NOT to the point of orgasm) infront of husband via skype?
Answer:
It is allowed for husband and wife to enjoy themselves between themselves
by each other but not by rubbing his own or her own body by his or her own
hand. Both can look at any part of the body of the other via Skype or any
other way of picturing or telecast,
But wife is not allowed to rubbi her clitorus by herself, and husband is
not allowed to rubb his own body by himself, although it is allowed for
both of them to rubb the body of the other when they are together.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi