Category: Marriage
Total : 371 Results
Question ID 364 Saturday 9th of March 2013
Question:
Husband always abused and beating me ,since the past 10 yrs hearing always his sisters words noe mine who left 3 husbands and live freely Had 2 small sons.no eating or drinking,no speaks,sleeping another room for the past 10 yrs. Sebsent me a way to get my husband back
Answer:
You need some one with wisdom to talk to you and your husband. Please refer to such person in your area who should listen to both of you and guide both of you to save your family life.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 359 Sunday 3rd of March 2013
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Salaam Alaikhom I am from India and i want to marry a girl from a pious family but my parents dont agree to my marriage only for one reason and that is that the girls family is poor and their status in society is very low. My parents want me to marry some one else. Can i refuse to marry the girl of my parents choice and go against the wishes of my parents and marry the girl of my choice whom i believe is pious. I need an answer quickly as i have lot of pressure from my parents. I am worried that if i go against the wishes of my parents i will be thrown in hell and that it is a great sin i need an advice qucikly please Ws
Answer:
It is not obligatory on you as a man to marry the girl chosen by your parents, especially if the girl of your choice is really pious believer. Nevertheless , don't hurt the feelings of your parents and try your best to politely convince them to agree on your choice .
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 358 Saturday 2nd of March 2013
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If a man marries a woman but they have not told about this to their families and society as their families were not agree for their marriage. Now after a couple of years , their families got agree for their marriage, Can this couple do Nikaah once again in front of their families and society without telling them that they are already married? If not, then what type of act is this..Haraam or Makrooh? Jazak Allah.
Answer:
Only virgin girl needs for her marriage the approval of her father or her paternal grand father. When father has agreed even later on, then the marriage is valid.
If the couple want to make a function in public or with their families to recite Nikah again, it is allowed. It does not mean that the first Nikah was invalid, but just to show the families a Nikah ceremony.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Misawi
Question ID 343 Sunday 24th of February 2013
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Dear Administrator, Salamu Alaikum wa rahmatullah, I am Shabirullah a married master's student who will spend his last semester in Japan until September 2013. Long distance to Afghanistan and lots of studies are obstacles to go home regularly, so I feel too uncomfortable in terms of life partner and mental health. I want to marry someone under Mut-aa (sigha) condition, so what is your kind advice under Jafari Mazhab for me? Looking for your kind response. Respects, Shabirullah
Answer:
Mut'a marriage is allowed in Islam according to Quran and authentic
Hadeeths.
In your case, if you fear falling in sin being away from your wife, you
must be sure that you remain safe from falling in sin. Mut'a marriage is
allowed with a woman who must be a Muslim or from People of Book (Ahl al
Kitab). She should not be currently married or passing Iddah. Both of you
should agree to have this temporary marriage between you and agree on the
period of time and the Mahr, then she or any one on her behalf should say
to you the Seegha of Mut'a.
You can find more on Shia websites like www.sistani.org
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
Question ID 331 Thursday 14th of February 2013
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If a woman who is no longer having her periods and has mutta relationship for a period...then after completion of the metta period does she need to observe an iddah period before entering into another mutta period ? Thank you Mawlana Musawi may allah swt give you you tawfiq and fulfils your hajaats as you are provising a valuable service.Ameen Abdul
Answer:
If she has no menstrual period at all, then there is no IDDAH on her.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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