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Question ID  430  -  Marriage -  2013-04-27 23:30:03
Sallam alaykum Syed, I pray to Allah swt that you are in good health. I am in a very bad situation in my house, I am newly Married and living with my parents, but now have a problem, we have a big fight between my parents and my wife, also with my sister, my wife feels they have not treated her properly, which is not true completely, she is to sensitive so any word makes her upset. My parents are dependent on me on this house as I pay the bills. now my wife wants me to leave my parents and move away. Which i cant do. She will not try and to fix the problem, and curses my parents. Please give me advise, I follow Syed Sistani as my Marja. Thank you
 
Answer:-  You should not leave your parents and serving them under any circumstance.
You should convince your wife to understand your responsibility as a son
and make her aware that any act which hurts the parents will bring wrath
and misery in this life and here after. Does she want her husband to be
cursed by Allah ?
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi







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Question ID  419  -  Marriage -  2013-04-21 13:45:02
SALAM ALAIKUM. MY QUESTION IS REGARDING MY WIFE. I HAVE THREE KIDS .YOUNGEST KIDS AGE IS 6 YEARS AND I NEED ONE MORE KID,BUT MY WIFE REFUSED AS SHE SAID THAT SHE IS NOT READY TO BEAR THE SUFFERINGS OF PREGNANCY.WHAT SHALL I DO IN THIS CIRCUMSTANCES
 
Answer:-  Husband is not allowed in Islam to force his wife to be pregnant. She has
full right to decide for herself as she will suffer the pain of
pregnancy, labor and delivery. You are not allowed to force her, but may
try to convince her in a good way, then she has the right to accept or
reject.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi


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Question ID  364  -  Marriage -  2013-03-09 15:45:02
Husband always abused and beating me ,since the past 10 yrs hearing always his sisters words noe mine who left 3 husbands and live freely Had 2 small sons.no eating or drinking,no speaks,sleeping another room for the past 10 yrs. Sebsent me a way to get my husband back
 
Answer:-  You need some one with wisdom to talk to you and your husband. Please refer to such person in your area who should listen to both of you and guide both of you to save your family life.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi

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Question ID  359  -  Marriage -  2013-03-05 03:45:02
Salaam Alaikhom I am from India and i want to marry a girl from a pious family but my parents dont agree to my marriage only for one reason and that is that the girls family is poor and their status in society is very low. My parents want me to marry some one else. Can i refuse to marry the girl of my parents choice and go against the wishes of my parents and marry the girl of my choice whom i believe is pious. I need an answer quickly as i have lot of pressure from my parents. I am worried that if i go against the wishes of my parents i will be thrown in hell and that it is a great sin i need an advice qucikly please Ws
 
Answer:-  It is not obligatory on you as a man to marry the girl chosen by your parents, especially if the girl of your choice is really pious believer. Nevertheless , don't hurt the feelings of your parents and try your best to politely convince them to agree on your choice .
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi

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Question ID  358  -  Marriage -  2013-03-03 03:30:03
If a man marries a woman but they have not told about this to their families and society as their families were not agree for their marriage. Now after a couple of years , their families got agree for their marriage, Can this couple do Nikaah once again in front of their families and society without telling them that they are already married? If not, then what type of act is this..Haraam or Makrooh? Jazak Allah.
 
Answer:-  Only virgin girl needs for her marriage the approval of her father or her paternal grand father. When father has agreed even later on, then the marriage is valid.
If the couple want to make a function in public or with their families to recite Nikah again, it is allowed. It does not mean that the first Nikah was invalid, but just to show the families a Nikah ceremony.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Misawi
 
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