Category: Family issues
Total : 74 Results
Question ID 2763 Friday 21st of August 2015
Question:
Assalam alaikum I belongs to a poor family..as i am married 22 years back.My problem is that my husband never worked ..and my expenses were beared by my brother and sister.I tried my best to force my husband to work but he refused to work till today My three kids have grown now.Can i leave my husband and start staying in my mothers house till he starts working..Now i am old and i dont have anything to eat also...Plz advise me how can i do to spend my life as i have been patience for almost 22 years..
Answer:
Your husband is responsible according to Sharia to spend on you. If he
refuses to do so, you can force him through Haakim Sharia or seek Talaq
which is not good in general.
You can do any lawful act to force him to spend on you.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
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Question ID 2685 Tuesday 14th of July 2015
Question:
a divorced woman with small children (not baligh) has remarried. Can the children refer to her husband as "dad" Or "father"
Answer:
He will not be real father for them, but they can call him whatever they
like because there are many meanings of the word "father" including the
person who looks after a child can be called father but not real
physiological father.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 2622 Friday 26th of June 2015
Question:
salam alikum i wanted to ask about my situation to u.im married to a man who always abuses me and hits me often.i am a very religious person is sense believe in akhirat and prepare for it. my husband doesnt have firm belief like me.i have a daughter i want to upbring her in the best of environment.so that she can be a good muslim.but my husband is nt keeping this as his aim.what do i do i dont wantto stay with a man like this who cannot give my daughter islamic morals.i am in two state of mind plz help.
Answer:
Do your best to keep your daughter in the right path of Imaan and be
patient on your husband's harassment. Pray for his Hidayat.
Wassalam
Moahhamd Al-Musawi
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Question ID 2469 Wednesday 29th of April 2015
Question:
SA, I am in a very big domestic issue because of my wife, it is not any general issue, but a very serious and major one, involving a major sin. I tried to take opinion of a few alims (including you) in this matter and have taken a decision accordingly to save our marriage. However I am very disturbed as I am unsure, whether the decision is correct or not, and my state my mind too fluctuates because of this major disturbance. No peace of mind, body has become thin and everything imaginable is disturbed. What is positive is my attitude only. I need to consult our 12th Imam atfs in this regards. Is there any aamal/dua/namaz that I can perform, recite, pray which will surely get our Imams (atfs)attention and He will guide me in this matter of very serious concern. I think He (atfs) is the only once who can get me a solution and peace and salvation. Kindly advice. Jazakallah
Answer:
Imam Al-Mahdi (A.S.) is not far from sincere believers. He is
being informed about our deeds and our situation by Allah (SWT). More
sincere deeds we achieve make us more near to him.
Salat ul Layl ( night Prayer or Namaz e Shab , Ziyarat e Ashura, Ziyarat
Jaame'a ,mr exciting Quran and Du'a , are very important in achieving
this aim.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
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Question ID 2420 Wednesday 8th of April 2015
Question:
salam molana sahb.i need to ask u very important questions,please reply fast. 1:can a girl with nikah get divorce from husband before rukhsati if she come to know that her husnand is known zani and sharabi and he is not willing to leave these haram acts at all? 2: can a girl marry to a known zani and sharabi?is it permissible in islam? 3:can parents of a girl force her to marry a known zani and sharabi?? please reply as soon as possible.i am in critical situation.
Answer:
> A 1:can a girl with nikah get divorce from husband before rukhsati if she
> come to know that her husnand is known zani and sharabi and he is not
> willing to leave these haram acts at all?
A1. Yes she can refuse marrying him if he has cheated her to make her agree
to marry him, then she discovered that she was been cheated, and his
real character was been hidden just to make her agree. Such cheating
allows her to invalidate the Nikah all together.
Q 2: can a girl marry to a known zani and sharabi?is it permissible in
> islam?
A2. It is not allowed to go for marriage which harms her religious life and
obligations.
> Q 3:can parents of a girl force her to marry a known zani and sharabi??
A3. If he is really a Zaani and Sharabi, no one including her parents has
right to force her to marry him.
> Wassalam.
Mohammad Al-Musawi