Category: Marriage
Total : 371 Results
Question ID 2360 Wednesday 11th of March 2015
Question:
Salaamun Alaikum Aga Mussawi. Two questions: 1-A woman does not have her menstrual cycle -is now divorced -does she need to observe Iddat period before she can enter into a Mutta marriage? 2-Can a married man do Mutta without informaing his wife to support the above lady in Question 1 above?
Answer:
> 1-A woman does not have her menstrual cycle -is now divorced -does she
> need to observe Iddat period before she can enter into a Mutta marriage?
> =E2=80=8BA1. If she does not have menstruation because her age is above t=
he age of
> menstruation, then no Iddah on her=E2=80=8B.
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> 2-Can a married man do Mutta without informing his wife to support the
> above lady in Question 1 above?
> =E2=80=8BA2. If she is a Muslim=E2=80=8B, then no need to inform your wif=
e, but be careful
> not to hurt your wife for helping some one else. You migh do more damage
> than help if your hurt your wife.
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=E2=80=8BWassalam.
Mohammad Al-Musawi=E2=80=8B
Question ID 2323 Sunday 22nd of February 2015
Question:
i am shia, i was in friendship with a suni virgin girl,she had changed into shia now becouse of me. she was under custody of his mothers as father had separated a long before, we read the segah of mutah to avoid from sin and done sex, but keep in secret from both my and her family,because of fear, that her mother will never allow such type of relation, and permission of father was not possible also, now what is the condition for both of us , is that nikah-mutah is valid or not , and now could we could have permanent marriage with or without her mothers permission. please answer this as soon as possible.
Answer:
Virgin girl needs in her marriage her father's permission. If her father is
not willing to allow her to marry while she is in need of marriage, and
there is no islamic ground for her father's refusal, then she can get
married. Mother's permission is not a condition in marriage.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 2318 Friday 20th of February 2015
Question:
1)If a virgin female has lost her parents and there is no guardian for her ..can she perform mutah 2)If virgin female has only brothers ..can she take there permission for mutah.
Answer:
If virgin female has lost her father , then she must get permission from
her paternal grand father. If she has lost both of them, then her marriage
does not need approval from others like her brothers or uncles etc.
This applies to permanent and temporary marriages.
Wassalam.
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 2283 Thursday 5th of February 2015
Question:
Salamun alaikum, First of all Thank you once again for providing us this option to get answers to all our religious questions so easily and quickly without being embarrassed incase of some very personal questions. We offer our sincere thanks, prayers and wellwishes to you and your team and every individual who has helped you in anyway in this cause. JAZAKALLAH My question is a bit complicated and I am hoping once again for a solution from you so I do not make any mistake which will only result in punishment in grave or this world. I married a non muslim girl under the influence of proved black magic on me. This black magic lasted for 7years. I am absolutely normal since last 1 year. This girl who is my wife claims that she converted to Islam before our marriage. She is a women who practices hijab in family functions and family gatherings only. She was a non muslim before so had many male friends and is modern in her thoughts. And had a few affairs before marriage, I married her only by fate and not at all by choice. She Prays namaz very very irregularly. Likes to Observes fast, attends majlis and likes to do azadari and like to listen to nauhas. She is a zawar of Imam Reza a.s. At home she does her household chores as required. Our personal bonding is very good as we take each others as friends. But our physical intimacy was shortlived as she is very very moody and has very less mood for intimacy and I have slept many many nights without anything. She understands this and has given me full permission to remarry permanent or temporary. I have not been with her for a total 3.5 years from our 8 years of our marriage, as I have worked in different countries. Out of which in the last 2 years I have been with her for 1 month. The issue that I am facing now is, she has committed adultery with a guy since last 8 months, and when confronted she accepted it and has till now no valid reason for the sin. I was away could be one of the reasons, but not the main reason. She says she did not intend to get into this, but it started with friendship and led to adultery. She wants to leave me and our son and says is frustrated with the kind of life she is living with me. After trying to make her realise the importance of her for our son, she has half heartedly said yes to stay back, but only for our son and not for us as she has lost interest in me. Her priority is still to go away, given an opportunity she will not look back. I have already forgiven her considering maybe even I am responsible for this. I have 2 needs from you: 1. Can you help me tackle this situation? What should I do? 2. Inspite of me forgiving her, the thought of her committing adultery has disturbed and these thoughts just do not go from my mind. Is there dua or aamal which I can do, to get over these thoughts. Kindly Advice JAZAKALLAH
Answer:
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> The main point is whether this person is suitable wife for you and
> suitable mother to bring up your son? If she can commit such dangerous sin
> again, them how can you trust her and how do you expect your son to grow up
> with her?
You need to study her behaviour carefully and do not jump on decision.
After considering all main factors, you need to decide your future as a
committed Muslim.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
Question ID 2279 Wednesday 4th of February 2015
Question:
Is 2nd marriage is allowed in our fiqa and what do u think of permission from first wife, it is important or not?
Answer:
Second marriage is not allowed but only for a man who practices justice
between more than one wife. If the man is unable to practice justice, then
he is not allowed more than one wife.
Permission of the first wife is not obligatory if the person is willing and
able to practice justice.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
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