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Question ID  535  -  Marriage
Assalam-o-alaikum i m too much worrid and need ur guidance as i follow Janab Ali Sestani..i m badly in need of reply as my health getting down due to thinking about my issues as follows 1: i was university student and virgin syeda shia girl totally financialy dependent upon my parents and mentally prepare to do arrange marriege but my class fellow insisted me to do friendship and finally he succeeded and at last to avoid sin he did muttah with me in which we properly recite seegha in arabic by selecting limit ( until i get marry to another man of my family choice ).i did not even inform my parents beacuse i knew that there are other syed man propsals every time ready for me and i know that my father will never ever be satisfied for my muttah with non-syed boy.after reamaining our muttah about 3 years i get engaged with a syed boy to whome me and my family was satisfied.i asked my muttah husband to shortened muttah limit to 1 month only as my matrimonial ceremony was decided after 6 months.so me and my muttah husband set time limit 1 month and read and write seegha in urdu but even dont mention time limit in reading and writing statement as he said that he will get sign this written marriage paper ( manually by hand ) by his two friends as witness so i dont mention muttah limit as witness dont believe in muttah but absolutely that muttah time was set in our mind and out intention was 1 month muttah period,well after 1 month we seperated and the whole story my parents were totally unaware of my muttah with my class fellow,after 6 months i married to my fiancee and now i have 2 kids....sir i m worried from 2 aspects 1: was my both muttahs were invalid so did i need Astaghfar as i did muttah without even letting know my father? and secondly i m worrid that as i did not recite muttah seegha while mentioning muttah limit but keeping time limit 1 month in mind so i m confused that whether that second one muttah was permanent nikah ? if it is so means that i m in haraam relation with my permanent nikah second husband and growing up illegal childs? sometimes when i think so i behave so rude with my husband and brutely hit my kids by thinking that they are illegal ? plz plz solove my issue as i cant sleep whole nite............
 
Answer:-  Your kids are not illegal.
Wassalam.



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Question ID  534  -  Marriage
Salam, Aaga can i do mutah with a non-virgin Sunni girl without her father\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s permission? Can i do mutah with a virgin ahle kitab without her father\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s permission? And last question can I use condoms during intercourse to avoid pregnancy? (i follow Aaga sistaani)
 
Answer:-  Q1. can i do mutah with a non-virgin Sunni girl without her father's permission?
A1. Non virgin is allowed to marry and she does not need permission of her father.

Q2. Can i do mutah with a virgin ahle Kitab with out her father's permission?
A2. Father's permission is must in the marriage of a virgin.

Q3. can I use condoms during intercourse to avoid pregnancy?
A3. Yes it is allowed.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID  527  -  Marriage
I am married person living in Dubai but my wife does not live with me and we meet around every 4-6 months. I want to do mutaah with a local girl to fulfill my marital desires but I dont find a shia girl here. Can I do Mutaah with a christian girl who is living here on work visa?? what are the requirements to do that???
 
Answer:-  According to Ayatullah Sistani , you need your wife's permission to have Muta with a Christian woman. No remission is required if you do Muta with a Muslim woman.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
 
Question ID  525  -  Marriage
Sallam alaykum, I pray to Allah swt you are in good health, I have asked a previous question on ID 430. I have tried to explain to my wife your answer, which she does not agree she thinsk wife is more important, I am considering divorce, the reason being she has started to swear at my mother and father, and cause even more trouble in my house, she wants me to leave, and prays for the worst to happen to my parents. I have sat down with the local imam, and explained the situation, but she still rejects this. Anything you explain to her from the teachings of Ahlulbayt a.s she advises this advise is 1400 yrs old and has no relevance in todays society which is wrong. I have tried my best, thank you for your advice in advance.
 
Answer:-  Tell her to read what the Prophet (SAWA) and Ahlul Bayt (AS) have said in this matter. She will be in future passing through same situation of your parents today, if she lives, does she want good treatment from her children then or want them to leave her and go with their wives?
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID  520  -  Marriage
Salamo alykom, my question is about Muta Marriage and can i read it my self to the girl and i am doing Muta or have to be read by a shikh or someone else. if i can read it my self and please send to me the Dua for Muta Marriage.
 
Answer:-  Mut'a marriage agreement can be read by her and you after you both agree on
the Mahr (Dowry) and period of time, she tells you: ZAWWAJTOKA NAFSI ALAL
MAHR AL MA'LOOM LILMUDDATIL MA'LOOMAH (I marry you for the said dowry for
the said period of time) and you reply her: QABILT (I agree).
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
 
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