Category: Marriage
Total : 371 Results
Question ID 459 Wednesday 8th of May 2013
Question:
Salam Respected Sayyid. Is it permissible to go into a relationship of mut'a marriage with a woman that has no religion, but believes in One God, just like Islam, and in search of Him through reading books of the three major religions? Wassalam
Answer:
Mut'ah marriage is not permitted at all but with a Muslim or Ahlul Kitab wom=
an. This woman is not yet a believer in Islam nor in Torah or Bible, hence M=
ut'ah marriage with her is not permissible.
Wassalam=20
Mohammad al-Musawi=
Question ID 456 Tuesday 7th of May 2013
Question:
Dear Moulana, Assalamalaikum, Moulana Sahib I am not having sexual relation with my wife for seven years but living together and looking after her and children financially. providing them house and fulfilling all the requirements. She does not want me to have a sexual relation with her and every time she tell me to get married because I cannot give you what you want. Please let me know what should I do in these circumstances. Thanks and regards.
Answer:
Wife must not refuse sexual relationship with her husband, except when she is in her menstruation period or post natal.
If she is unwell and unable to fulfill her duties as a wife, you may try to get her treated. If she refuses and tells you to get another wife, you may do so to save yourself from Haraam, but the condition for another marriage is to fulfill practical justice between both wives.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
Question ID 445 Wednesday 1st of May 2013
Question:
Salaam Alaikum respected Sheikh, I hope and pray you are keeping well and in good health insh. I have a question for which I am hoping you can provide some guidance (I do taqleed of Ayatullah Sistani). I asked this question on Ayatullah Sistani's website several months ago and have still not received a response. In a marital relationship, if the husband suffers from a severe Premature Ejaculation problem and is unable to fully satisfy his wife during sexual intercourse, is he permitted to use a sexual aid (e.g. battery operated vibrator/sex toy/dildo)during sex with her, to enhance the process and help his wife also achieve sexual gratification and reach her climax? I have read from other sources that it is permissible as long as the sexual aid does not penetrate the vagina i.e. external stimulation only is permissible with a sex toy, however, I just wanted to double check with you. Also, to clarify, the sexual aid (if permissible islamically) would only be used between husband and wife as a couple during sex, and never for self-stimulation when alone. Thanks and I look forward to hearing back from you soon. Regards, Mohamed
Answer:
It is allowed for husband and wife to use sexual aid only between them.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 430 Wednesday 24th of April 2013
Question:
Sallam alaykum Syed, I pray to Allah swt that you are in good health. I am in a very bad situation in my house, I am newly Married and living with my parents, but now have a problem, we have a big fight between my parents and my wife, also with my sister, my wife feels they have not treated her properly, which is not true completely, she is to sensitive so any word makes her upset. My parents are dependent on me on this house as I pay the bills. now my wife wants me to leave my parents and move away. Which i cant do. She will not try and to fix the problem, and curses my parents. Please give me advise, I follow Syed Sistani as my Marja. Thank you
Answer:
You should not leave your parents and serving them under any circumstance.
You should convince your wife to understand your responsibility as a son
and make her aware that any act which hurts the parents will bring wrath
and misery in this life and here after. Does she want her husband to be
cursed by Allah ?
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID 419 Monday 15th of April 2013
Question:
SALAM ALAIKUM. MY QUESTION IS REGARDING MY WIFE. I HAVE THREE KIDS .YOUNGEST KIDS AGE IS 6 YEARS AND I NEED ONE MORE KID,BUT MY WIFE REFUSED AS SHE SAID THAT SHE IS NOT READY TO BEAR THE SUFFERINGS OF PREGNANCY.WHAT SHALL I DO IN THIS CIRCUMSTANCES
Answer:
Husband is not allowed in Islam to force his wife to be pregnant. She has
full right to decide for herself as she will suffer the pain of
pregnancy, labor and delivery. You are not allowed to force her, but may
try to convince her in a good way, then she has the right to accept or
reject.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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