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Question ID 5547 Thursday 23rd of September 2021
I follow sayyid sistani. 1. When my nikkah was done almost a year ago I didn’t know about the sighah i just knew i had a vakil and i thought you both need a maulana to be there thats why i had a vakil. I didnt even know that a sighah was recited on the men’s side in front of my husband (I couldnt hear it cause it was far).I read about it on sistani.org and became instantly worried that my marriage was not in order so I checked the wedding video and the vakil is pronouncing the sighah but they didn’t say our names in the sighah, is my marriage in order? 2. When the vakil first came to me on the woman’s side he asked me permission to begin the sighah in urdu and i just said yes because i was nervous and didnt know that he was asking me permission to begin the sighah rather I thought it was just to ask permission to begin. Then when he asked if i consented to the marriage i didnt know if i should say anything and then he asked me again and thats when my mother said i should say yes so i said yes, is my marriage in order? also the vakil said the mehr wrong, will that affect anything? 3. when i was first engaged to my husband it was under a lot of pressure and then afterwards i was okay with marrying him but now i fear maybe it was out of fear of my parents or manipulation that i said yes at the time of nikkah, but i love my husband now so is my marriage in order even if the nikkah was conducted under pressure or manipulation?
Your marriage is perfect with out any doubt despite all which you mentioned
in your question.
Question ID 5538 Wednesday 25th of August 2021
I have intention of contracting non-sexual Mutah of my daughter (14 years old) with two domestic servants so that my wife does not need to do veil from them and so that they can work freely within the house and can live in the servant quarters within the house. Kindly guide me on the matter and give replies for following questions. 1- Is there any waiting period for my daughter before entering into mutah contract with the second servant? 2- Is the consent of my daughter for this mutah necessary or not?. Can this mutah be contracted without her knowledge? 3- When the mutah is over, does my daughter has to observe veil from her former temporary husbands (i.e. our servants)?
Wa Alaykum Assalam wr wb
> Q1- Is there any waiting period for my daughter before entering into muta=
> contract with the second servant?
> A1. No waiting period because marriage was never comsumated.
> Q2- Is the consent of my daughter for this mutah necessary or not?. Can
> this mutah be contracted without her knowledge?
> A2. Your daughter is 14 years so she must know what is going on.
> Q3- When the mutah is over, does my daughter has to observe veil from her
> former temporary husbands (i.e. our servants)?
> A3. Yes she must wear Hijab from them.
Question ID 5534 Monday 23rd of August 2021
Is it permissible for a woman to ask the suitor to take off his shirt and pants and only stand in his underwear so that she can assess his physique and the size of his private parts from atop the underwear?, if there is no fear of sin and her parents has consented to it.
*If the intention is only for marriage, and the man willingly agrees and
there is no possibility of any insult or sin neither at present nor in
future, then it will be allowed. But we don=E2=80=99t encourage such physic=
because it makes her intention in marriage focus on things which can never
create happy marriage. Will she accept a similar condition from him to
assess her physique and size of her breast or private parts atop her
underwear? This is not the way for happy marriage to start with.*
*Happy marriage does not come from the size of private parts or other parts
of the body, but comes from mutual love and respect based on faith and
Question ID 5533 Monday 23rd of August 2021
Is it lawful for the young woman to uncover her hair and wear tight dress in front of the suitor for marriage who is visiting her to asses her looks and beauty?
*If the intention is for marriage only and no possibility of sin, then it
will be allowed.*
Question ID 5532 Sunday 22nd of August 2021
Salaam, RE : Marriage Can a Shia man marring a Sunni women have the "nikah/ Akad" read by a Sunni priest reciting Sunni vows of marriage?
Shia Nikah and Sunni Nikah are similar and both are valid.