| Question ID 5547 - Marriage - 2021-09-23 18:00:02 |
| I follow sayyid sistani.
1. When my nikkah was done almost a year ago I didn’t know about the sighah i just knew i had a vakil and i thought you both need a maulana to be there thats why i had a vakil. I didnt even know that a sighah was recited on the men’s side in front of my husband (I couldnt hear it cause it was far).I read about it on sistani.org and became instantly worried that my marriage was not in order so I checked the wedding video and the vakil is pronouncing the sighah but they didn’t say our names in the sighah, is my marriage in order?
2. When the vakil first came to me on the woman’s side he asked me permission to begin the sighah in urdu and i just said yes because i was nervous and didnt know that he was asking me permission to begin the sighah rather I thought it was just to ask permission to begin. Then when he asked if i consented to the marriage i didnt know if i should say anything and then he asked me again and thats when my mother said i should say yes so i said yes, is my marriage in order? also the vakil said the mehr wrong, will that affect anything?
3. when i was first engaged to my husband it was under a lot of pressure and then afterwards i was okay with marrying him but now i fear maybe it was out of fear of my parents or manipulation that i said yes at the time of nikkah, but i love my husband now so is my marriage in order even if the nikkah was conducted under pressure or manipulation? |
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Answer:- Your marriage is perfect with out any doubt despite all which you mentioned
in your question.
Wassalam.
Muhammad Al-Musawi
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