Imam al-Sadiq (AS) said, 'Generosity is one of the noble traits possessed by prophets. It is the pillar of belief, such that only a true believer will be generous, as well as one who possesses great certainty and high aspiration, for generosity is a gleam from the light of certainty, and the one who knows what he wants finds it easy to give away.

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Question ID  4404  -  Marriage
Salams, I am in a difficult situation. I married my wife in January 18 under a standard nikkah agreement. There was no variation of the contract. It was an arranged marriage between families. She was given all her required marriage rights. I love my wife very much but she was always short tempered and often made threats to divorce me if I didn’t do as i was told. In May 18 she said she will divorce me if I went to see my parents for two days. I felt she was joking so I went to see my parents and asked if she wished to attend. She declined and stayed at her family home. She never returned home. She has now approached Several well known organisations in UK who all said she doesn’t have grounds for divorce as there hasn’t been any significant dispute to warrant divorce. I explained to all imams I seek only reconciliation and for a facility of a meeting with my wife. She continued to find an imam and now has located one. Without any discussions or meeting he sent me Khula papers twice now with false grounds for divorce being cited. I have requested a meeting with him but he refuses to co-operate. All Imams I have spoken to say he isn’t following any Shi’a doctrine on the laws of divorce. My rights as a husband are now 0% and my wife has 100% rights although the nikkah does not say this. 1) Can the imam she has paid change my status in the nikkah without my permission? 2) other Imams have said that if he grants divorce it will not be recognised as it does not comply with doctrine ane we remain husband and wife. The Imams have said she will commit adultry as her imam has told her she is divorced which is incorrect 3) my wife imam said that he follows Ayatollah Sistani decree. I cannot imagine the offices of The Great Ayatollah Sistani agreeing with divorce under this process especially when our issues are small in nature and I have sought nothing but reconciliation and are capable of being resolved. Can you please advise me of my position? Kind regard
 
Answer:-  Wa Alaykum Assalam wr wb
1. No one can divorce or get Khula from you on your behalf with out real grounds on injustice done by you to your wife. Visiting your parents is not only your right but obligation and it can never be a grind for Khula.
2. If any one recited divorce or Khula in this case, it is invalid and it has no value at all. Such person is misusing religion for pleasing your wife or gaining worldly gains.
3. All the Shia lama including Ayatullah Sistani do not allow such Khula.
Assalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi



 
Question ID  4369  -  Marriage
My daughter has involved in love with a sunni boy ,as we are Shia.We performed engagement with a Shia boy but She is not ready to for marriage as that Shia boy is very momin and muttaqi and has a great love towards ahlulbait.What is Islam ruling on this.
 
Answer:-  If your daughter is already engaged to a Shia boy and she is in love with another person from different sect, you need to talk to her and convince and warn her about the bad sequences of such act.
In principle , Marriage is allowed between Muslims, but if the marriage can cause harm on true faith, then it will be not allowed. You can not force your daughter to marry a person when she is in love with another person, but you need to be very open and frank with her in order to make her understand the consequences.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musaw



 
Question ID  4332  -  Marriage
Salam. So i have several questions. 1. I am a shia girl, I met someone who was shia and we did mutah. I was a virgin but he did not consider me a virgin because i had done oral/physical things with others before and my hymen was broken cause of that but never penetration or intercourse. Was it halal of him to not consider me a virgin and not ask my father before doing mutah and having intercourse with me? 2. He has had intercourse with many women before me all who were muslim, christian or jewish, over 20 and he said as a shia man he can do mutah as many times he wants purely for his sexual desires and does not need a waiting period to do so. Is this true? Can a man do mutah unlimited amount of times for purely his desires and not wait in between mutah? Is this his religious right? 3. Can a man do mutah with multiple girls at once?
 
Answer:-  Wa Alaykum Assalam wr wb
1- You are still a Virgin girl because you did not marry before. You need
permission of your father for any type of marriage including Mut'ah
marriage.
2- A married Muslim man needs the permission of his Muslim wife for doing
Mut'ah with woman from Ahlul Kitano.
3- Mut'ah marriage aims to protect men and women from sinful sexual acts.
It should not be misused in any way.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
 
Question ID  4323  -  Marriage
Asalam o alaikum. Recently i have married (muta) with a divorced. And she is living with parents and is not financially independent. She is Muslim but she follows someone live in london and she believes he is Imam Mahdi. So please guide me is my muta valid, as i am under takleed of ayatollah sistani.
 
Answer:-  If she is a Muslim, then the Muta marriage with her is valid even if she is misguided by a person who lives in London claiming that he is the Imam.
Can you please write more details about the person who claims this false claim?

 
Question ID  4297  -  Marriage
Is it possible to do mutta online (aqd recited on phone ) in order to chat to a lady who is within the rules to do mutta ie divorced. Also can intimate pictures and videos exchanged under mutta conditions. Jazakallah khair inshallah for your guidance. May Allah swt reward you for your efforts. Aameen
 
Answer:-  Yes it is permissible to do Mut=E2=80=99ah on phone provided all condition=
s are
fulfilled.
If Mut=E2=80=99ah is valid, then intimacy is allowed.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi
 
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