| Question ID 5743 - Marriage - 2022-08-24 02:00:01 |
| Salam.
I am a shia muslim boy from Pakistan, currently studying and living in Germany. I am 24 years old. I want to marry a sunni girl. She does veil(parda), she is educated. I want to do love marriage with her. I have considered all the aspects as well. The girl is completing her Masters degree from Pakistan prestigious institute. But, my father does not allow me to marry her , as my father says "we are syed, we should marry in our own family". My father humiliates the girl and her home by saying they are from lower caste and I should not marry a sunni girl. She is muhib e Ehl e bayt (as). She has no hatred.
I love the girl and I believe with the help of Allah Almighty, I will make a good understanding with her as I have known her from many long time, and we will live happily. (InshaAllah).
My mother says she is with me. She has totally allowed me this marriage from all her heart. But my father keeps making hurdles and emotional blackmail everytime I say anything about my marriage. What should I do?
Marja agha bashir najfi |
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Answer:- Wa Alaykum Assalam wr wb
Love is an emotional state which does not remain forever. Millions of young
people had love marriages but emotions did not remain the same. You should
be realistic and think about the future when emotions from both sides
diminish or decrease. Are you sure that this girl will be good wife
following Ahlul Bayt (AS) and bringing your children to be on loving and
following Ahlul Bayt (AS)? Are you sure that she will not return back to
her family history and sect?
After considering these factors and related issues, you should weight the
plus points against minus points.
You don=E2=80=99t need your father=E2=80=99s permission for your marriage b=
ut you should
keep the respect of your parents and never hurt them.
Wassalam.
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