Category: Family issues

Total : 74 Results

Question ID 1119 Tuesday 4th of February 2014

Question:

Salaam Alaykum I am a follower of Ayatullah Sistanti and I have two questions to ask you please: 1)Can a pregnant women find out in her ultra sound scan what she is getting either boy or girl.Is this fine and allowed? 2) Also people say that when a baby is born and when the cord comes off the baby's belly button, then we should store the cord as it brings barkaat? Thank you. I look to your response

Answer:

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> Q1)Can a pregnant women find out in her ultra sound scan what she is
> getting either boy or girl.Is this fine and allowed?
> A1) Tes it is allowed but no non Mahram is allowed to see any part of her
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> Q2) Also people say that when a baby is born and when the cord comes off
> the baby\'s belly button, then we should store the cord as it brings
> barkaat?
> A2. We do not have any evidence for such claim.

Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi

Question ID 1117 Tuesday 4th of February 2014

Question:

Assalam Alikum, I write in regard to my 2 year old daughter. I have noticed a change in her behaviour and wish to recieve some guidance from yourself. Since her birth she has witnessed arguements etc and violent outbursts from her dad and most recently is having to witness the seperation of both parents. She is living with me (her mother) and sees her father when he wants to see her which isn't often, she misses her dad and often asks for him. She gets very upset when he dad leaves when dropping her back off to me. She has started private nursery and lashes out on me often as she doesn't want to come home, she starts to hit me and becomes very upset. Even at night she wakes up distressed alot. I recite Ayat Kursi on her and sometimes she calms down but sometimes not. I was wondering if there is anything you can suggest for me to recite on her to control her behaviour and also to help her deal with her parents separation. Jazak Allah

Answer:

It might be very helpful to her if you and her dad reconcile and live
together, then she will not miss any of her parents. Try your best to live
together, at least for the sake of your baby.
You may ask again if you need any help.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi

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Question ID 903 Tuesday 3rd of December 2013

Question:

Aagha Salam, I have a question: my non-muslim father lives with me he is terminally ill... he enjoys and likes to go to gambling hall to play the slot machines... my husband does not like me to take him, he says it is Haram for me to do so. I feel torn between my father and my husband. Does anyone have advice and can you give me Haddith and Ayatts concerning this matter? Khoda Haafiz.

Answer:

It is not allowed to help any one to do any sinful act, and gambling is a
sinful act according to Islam. You are not allowed to take your father to
gambling hall, but you must keep treating him in the best way as we read in
Quran that if your parent try to deviate you from the Right Path, do not
obey them, and keep treating them in a nice way.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi

Question ID 895 Friday 29th of November 2013

Question:

Salaam aalikum Maulana Musawi -May allah swt give you more tawfiq to do more to help the ummah in answering questions as they like...Ahsant and Jazzakallah khair inshallah. My Question: -As a father I have been trianing my daughter from young age and now she is 9 years old nearly baligh -She used to stand next to me during prayers as we recided each namaaz. Now she is balaigh can she continue to recite namaaz when Iam reciting side by side? or please advice Ahsant

Answer:

If she is Baligh, let her stand during Salat behind you and not side by
side. This is according to precaution.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi


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Question ID 856 Monday 18th of November 2013

Question:

My husband is having psychological problem.My rukhsati is not done yet. My family wants me to take separation from him.I have done istakhara for separation but in that I am strongly told, not to take separation from him. Kindly tell me some dua for his health. He has stopped talking to me for 1 month. Last time when I asked him to come to my place he refused to come by saying I am not feeling good. After that his phone was switched off. I don't know with whom I should discuss my problem. I will be relieved if you answer my problem.thanks

Answer:

1. You need to talk to him quite and gently to understand the real reasons
behind the situation.
2. You may also request good people whom he respect, to talk to him.
3. You may repeat (YA GHAFOURU YA WADOUD) as many times as you can.
Wassalam.

> Mohammad al-Musawi

WABIL - World Ahlulbayt(as) Islamic League, London.