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Question ID  2091  -  Family issues
As salam un alaikum, A women has 2 boys in good health from her husband. But her husband wants a girl too, and wants to try once again. But the wife is against it. I have 3 questions for this issue. a. Can the wife refuse her husband this trial as she is not prepared for it physically, mentally and in any other way. However there is no danger to her health. b. If the doctor has refused her to have a third child and the husband considers this as a lie and is forcing her to have a child. There is danger to her life her. What should she do in this case. c. Can she ask for a divorce in any of the above 2 conditions if the husband is adamant to have a girl child with her only. Kindly advice Jazakallah
 
Answer:-  Husband is not allowed to force his wife to be pregnant, but she must allow
him to sleep with her when ever he needs if there no religious or health
restrictions . She is free to use pills or any medication preventing
pregnancy as far as it does not disturb husband from his sexual rights as a
husband with his wife.
It is good for the wife to obey her husband in this matter as well, if
there is no risk on her life from pregnancy.
This difference does not make reason for Talaq. You will be then harming
the future of the two children beside destroying you family.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi

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Question ID  2063  -  Family issues
Salamun Alaykom, On a recent trip abroad I experienced something unusual. I met a married couple that were unable to have children. The husband asked his married brother to have a child with his own wife and they adopted that child. Is this allowed, if so, what are the conditions? WasSalam
 
Answer:-  How can a man have a child with a woman who is not his wife? That is a
major sin of fornication.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi

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Question ID  2043  -  Family issues
Dear brother Asalam-Alaykum, in confidence and no matter what you tell me Insha-Allah it will be confidential, please reply with Istikhara result, my sister in milton keynes syeda farkhanda jabeen and her mum name is qamar nisa, syeda farkhanda jabeen is married wphth children, last 1 year she not respecting husband, shouting at children and goes to work outside , need to know if she commiting zinah and maybe has somebody outsie what she is doing outside and in private? please reply so i can save my sister marriage even if she is doing something. Jazak- Allah reply asap
 
Answer:-  Istikhara means seeking guidance to do or not to do something. It is not
for guessing the behaviour of people or to guess what will happen.
If you need real istikhara, you may write again.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi

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Question ID  2041  -  Family issues
my brother is torturing not only me but all the family members..my father died 5 years ago..we dont understand either he is doing all this intentionally or is he a psychiatric patient...what should i do
 
Answer:-  The elders in the family or the community may talk to him politely.
Wassalam

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Question ID  2028  -  Family issues
Slam mjhay pls btai k biwi pay ye farz ha k wo apnay husband k ghr walo ki dakhbal kray unka khayal kray khidmatay kray.aqa seestani ki taqlid may hy men to unki nzar may kya ha plz mjhay btai.shykria.
 
Answer:-  Wife is required to look after her husband and she is not required to look
after his parents, although if she looks after them she will get reward and
pleasing her husband is a great reward.
Wassalam
Mohammad al-Musawi

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